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August 16, 2016

Piran in Pictures

August 16, 2016

In case you can’t tell by now, Al and I really love Slovenia. We’ve had several half-serious conversations about how we can make it work logistically to move here permanently.

If the amazing historic cities, stunning mountain ranges, and friendly people weren’t reason enough to want to come to Slovenia and never look back, it turns out they also have one of the most beautiful (albeit tiny) coastlines I’ve ever seen.

When you book a trip like this in advance, you always hope you are giving yourself enough time in each place. The fear is that you’ll book too many nights in a place that you end up not connecting with, or not enough nights in places you end up loving.

With Slovenia, I think we gave ourselves the perfect amount of time. If we stayed any longer, we would never leave. After we left Lancovo, we headed to our last planned stop in Slovenia’s coastal town of Piran, located on the southwestern edge of the country, along the Adriatic sea. The town’s origins date back to 178 BC, after the Romans conquered the Istrian Peninsula, where Piran now sits.

When we arrived to Piran, we were exhausted from going non-stop from the past week, but were infused with new life immediately upon entering the city. It also felt completely different from the rest of Slovenia. The town is only made up of 26 miles of land, and doesn’t allow cars, so it is a perfect walking city.

It is made up of narrow cobblestone streets that twist and turn at every stop (which are often compared to the streets of Venice), colorful pastel buildings, and more outdoor restaurants and bars than you could possibly need, all while being surrounded by the shining blue waters of the Adriatic sea.

Friendly tip: do not go to Piran on a summer weekend. It was so crowded to the point of suffocation when we arrived on Sunday night, but completely cleared out for us by Monday.

We spent our time here walking around the city, swimming and reading by the sea, visiting some of the historic landmarks, and of course, eating and drinking. It was the perfect Slovenian city to get us ready to transition into our next country, Croatia.

Here are some shots to give you an idea of what life was like in Piran:

 

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Loved every street.

 

 

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Piran from inside the old wall

 

 

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View towards the ocean

 

 

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St. George’s Parish Church in the background

 

 

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Sun setting over St. George

 

 

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The Pier of Piran

 

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loved the colors on these buildings.

 

 

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The water is as blue as it gets.

 

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happy in Piran

 

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Once again, the church

 

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I want to steal those shutters.

 

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Steets of Piran

 

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Red roofs everywhere

 

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How do I get on one of those boats?

 

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Walking along the water

 

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Al and I laughed a little bit too hard at this.

 

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ugh, so pretty.

 

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We’ll always love you, Piran.

 

 

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August 15, 2016

Earning Our Laškos in Lancovo

August 15, 2016

I have always been a water person. I love to be as near a large body of water as much as possible, and am constantly seeking out the chance to be close to the ocean.

About a year ago, my group of friends passed around the following question to one another:

If there was a hammock hanging with a view of the sea in front, and the mountains facing the back, which way would you choose to face? 

It wasn’t a question for me, the answer was a no brainer. The sea. Always the sea.

Al and I spent the last three days exploring the Julian Alps in Slovenia, and for the first time, I started reconsidering my hammock answer.

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Beautiful mountain views before entering the park

The Julian Alps are the most beautiful mountains (or landscape for that matter) I have ever seen in my entire life, and I suddenly realized why people are so drawn to them. On top of how gorgeous they were, being near the mountains and so much nature meant that Al and I were outside and being active nearly every single moment of each day, which was a huge adjustment to what our bodies are used to.

At home in Chicago, I considered myself to be a relatively active person. I went to the gym five times a week and (weather permitting, which admittedly was much less than you’d think) tried to get outside for a walk or do some type of physical activity on the weekends. Then, I came to Slovenia and saw how active Slovenians are all the time, and I realized that I was nowhere near as active as I considered myself to be. They are constantly biking (completely uphill), hiking, walking somewhere, or doing some type of outdoor sport. Every single day. It seems the only time they sit is for meals. If I really think about it, I probably spent most of my waking hours at home sitting down at my desk, in a chair somewhere, or on my couch.

This all changed once we got to the mountains.

After we left our unexpected hotel room in Bled, we checked into our Airbnb about 10 minutes outside of Bled, in a tiny neighborhood called Lancovo, which is part of the bigger town, Radovljica. This turned out to be the perfect base for us to spend our days hiking and exploring Triglav National park, as well as getting a real feel for what life is like in Slovenia (thanks to our amazing Airbnb host). Over homemade Slovenian wine and fresh tomatoes paired with cheese that melts in your mouth, our host gave us every recommendation she had for things to do, as well as beautiful hikes to take in the area.

After that, we were out the door and constantly moving around. I couldn’t believe how many things we would fit in a day: hiking up waterfalls all morning, followed by an hour of canoeing, and a two hour hike before dinner in the evening. I am not saying any of this to brag, I am saying it out of amazement over how much being in an active environment can make a difference.

This is particularly significant when I think about the fact that after a day of work at home, Al and I would actually argue over having to go to CVS (which was basically connected to our building) to pick up toilet paper on a Tuesday night.

Al and I felt like we were spending days on end walking on some type of an uphill incline. When things would get particularly challenging, one of us would say to the other,

“Let’s do this. We gotta earn that Laško.’ (the local beer in Slovenia).

We would say it to encourage each other by imagining how good that cold beer at the end of the day was going to taste after we had spent the day earning it. And it really worked. The satisfaction of a Laško after so many hours of non-stop activity, was so much greater than having my favorite beer in the world after a day at work sitting behind my desk.

Here are some of the highlights over our 3 days in the mountains, and how we tried to earn those beers.

 Radovlijca and the hike to Pusti Grad

 

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Streets of Old Town

The medieval old town of Radovlijca is a historic town built in front of a church dating back to the 1300’s, and was about a 20 minute walk uphill from our Airbnb. We loved walking around and reading about the history, and imagining what it was like for people walking the streets centuries ago. Another great memory was having wine next to the green hills filled with vines, mountain views, and beautiful ancient buildings.

 

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Can’t even feel the cold when it’s this beautiful

Another highlight was the 2 hour hike we took from the old town to the remains of Pusti Grad, a medieval castle (that is relatively unknown, as there is very limited information on it) from around 1100.

 

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Castle Grounds

The ‘trail’ went through winding dirt roads, huge mountain passes, fields with sweeping views of the surrounding land, and we would randomly run into herds of sheep or chickens crossing the road. Getting to the castle remains was an adventure in itself, and Al and I both felt like we were on some kind of medieval quest the entire time (gotta entertain ourselves somehow).

Some beautiful sights along the trail:

 

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Drooling over this mountain view.

Bohinj Lake 

 

Bohinj Lake is about 35 minutes from lake Bled. When I was doing my research, I read that many people like it much more than Bled, reasoning that it is less touristy, still breathtakingly beautiful, and the water is even more clear than what you’ll see in Lake Bled.

I definitely can’t argue with any of those points. I found it to have a much more natural and ‘Slovenia’ feel to it, and there’s much more to do from an outdoorsy standpoint. Al and I spent our time in Bohinj hiking around the lake, and we even decided to rent a canoe (for 9 euro an hour) to get more up close and personal with the water. Al has been itching to swim into one of these lakes ever since we arrived, so he was finally able to check that first-week bucket list item off the list.

He Swims:

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I sleep:

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Guess I’m not really earning my Laško here, am I?

After canoeing, we walked uphill (again) for about 30 minutes to the famous Slap (waterfall) Slavica to get a glimpse of this natural beauty:

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I guess it’s cool.

Triglav National Park

 

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Gasp

I probably need to write a whole separate post on Triglavski National Park. The park takes up a whopping 4% of Slovenia’s entire country, and is named after the highest mountain in the range, Mt. Triglav, standing at 2864 meters high. The Julian Alps are what make up the bulk of the park, but there are also lakes, giant waterfalls, miles of green forest, historic passes and museums from WWI, open Alpine meadows, caves, gorges, interesting vegetation, and SO much more.

 

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Look how cool that is

The reason I want to write a separate post on this, is because there was so much to do that we almost felt overwhelmed with where to start. We wanted to see everything, but we weren’t sure which would be the best paths for us to hike, and attractions for us to see in just 3 days. Thankfully, we left so happy with what we were able to cover (but we still were left wanting more)

For now, I’ll just leave you with some of our favorites from the park:

 

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driving up to the park

 

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my favorite picture. Al realizing the water was not ‘refreshing’ but actually hypothermia level freezing

 

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you can’t tell, but I’m sitting on top of a waterfall.

 

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this one.

This gives some of our highlights, but there is so much more to see and do, that we probably could’ve spent a month in this area, and still not see everything.

Our time in Lancovo is one of those experiences that I don’t think I will ever be able to put into words in the right way. There were days when I would wake up irritable, or homesick, but after only a few minutes into a hike or being in nature, the feelings would instantly melt away.

These days in the mountains made me realize more than ever, just how important it is for me to live somewhere that gives me access to this type of nature. Plus, that way I won’t have to feel bad about all the beers afterwards.

So, maybe I’ll just turn my hammock sideways from now on.

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Down the street from our house in Lancovo

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August 11, 2016

The Unexpected Road to Bled

August 11, 2016

About six (or so) months ago, when we were still planning out and booking this trip, I came across an interesting Airbnb for a stay in Slovenia. It was a listing for a campsite near the Alpine river Savinija, located about halfway between Maribor and one of my most highly anticipated stops, Lake Bled. The ‘room’ was basically a giant triangle, with a tent located inside:

 

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Actual real life footage of this place (that I took, so you can see where this story is going already)

I sent the listing to my best friend on Gchat (yes apparently a huge chunk of our planning happened over Gchat) and I said something along the lines of, “Ugh, can you imagine sleeping in that triangle thing?” She responded with some witty comment, supporting how I felt about the idea of sleeping in an open tent next to multiple strangers and potentially screaming children. I sent it to my husband about the same time, and he simply responded ‘we’re doing it.’

To be fair, it is located on a river in one of the most beautiful locations in Slovenia, surrounded by mountains and lush vegetation, and blah blah blah all of that good stuff.

It is not that I don’t like camping, or the outdoors (in fact, I actually really enjoy both, and have done my fair share of pitching up tents for several nights in a row). There was just something about the triangle rooms smashed together in a row, and the idea of communal living which really turned me off (no offense to anyone who thrives on that, just my experience).

But, I knew that there was a part of me that sort of wanted to do the whole outdoor sleeping under the stars camping experience as well, because I sent it to my husband fully knowing that he was going to jump at the chance to do it. We compromised on one night in the outdoor triangle camp ground, and I booked it while internally reasoning with myself, “I can stay anywhere for one night’

Once we arrived in Slovenia, it hit me that my ‘night in the triangle’ was approaching much quicker than I realized. I would jokingly complain to my best friends about how I was dreading it, but if I am being honest, I think part of me actually believed that we were going to end up leaving the campground with some really amazing memories. Hey, who knows, maybe I would even end up writing an inspiring blog post about how you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover, or something equally as heart warming that would surely move millions of people to book their own camping experience.

Well huge surprise, that did not happen.

When Al and I woke up in Maribor, on the day that we were scheduled to head to The Triangle, it was pouring rain. I stared out of our window and just thought to myself ‘I can’t believe of all the days for the weather to be shitty, it’s on Triangle Day.’

We got in the car and plugged the location into the GPS, and realized we would be arriving to the Triangle in about 90 minutes. This was not enough time to wait out the rain, so we decided to just take random detours when we felt like it, to try and buy us some time for the rain to die down.

Our first detour, was a beautiful town located on the side of a hill called Fram. We decided to check it out at the absolute last minute (Al is yelling at the exit SHOULD I TURN OR NOT? TURN OR NOT?!) simply because our group of friends refer to each other as ‘Framily’ (Friends + Family) and often shorten it to Fram.

I’m not joking. This is the only reason we decided to turn and visit (beauty of a road trip) and we were rewarded with such a beautiful drive, and views of the country (only a few which I managed to whip out the camera for) :

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In Fram, watching two deer frolick in a misty field

 

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View from the top of Fram (in a brief moment where it was somewhat clear)

 

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More of Fram’s natural Beauty

After Fram, the rain still hadn’t let up, and it was closing in on 1:00pm at this point. We figured we might as well just head to The Triangle, and see what happens. About 15 minutes out of Fram, I was distracted by road signs reading ‘Laško’. Laško is the most well known local beer in Slovenia, so I made the genius connection that it must be brewed in the town Laško! (you guys, I know, I’m really smart). We decided to take another detour to Laško to see if my hypothesis was correct.

Well it turns out I was right, and Laško is in fact, where they brew Laško. We explored the town via car, and had a Laško in Laško! (something I couldn’t stop saying over and over, which Al got sick of extremely quickly)

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Proof! They make Laško in Laško at the Laško brewery!

 

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I’m drinking a Laško in Laško! Probably the first tourist ever to think that it is cool.

 

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Now see Al drink a Laško in Laško. You see where this is going.

 

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omg look, we’re living our dream! Can’t you tell?

After Laško, the rain still wasn’t letting up, but I knew it was time to face The Triangle. Once we arrived, I could tell (vaguely) through the fog and the smoke, that this was probably an insanely beautiful location, if only you could actually see it.

We trudged through the rain and mud, and knocked on a few wrong doors (to some very confused Slovenians) and then eventually ran back to the car to regroup, and so we could try and call the Airbnb host. We were cold, wet, covered in mud, and tired from driving around in the constant rain for hours. I looked at Al and said, “We have to at least go and look at it.”

 

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doesn’t this look fun?

So, we did. We walked down a long muddy slope, and met the owner of the campgrounds (who was really nice, by the way). He showed us around, and pointed at several different Triangles that were available to us. I had to stop myself from exclaiming ‘you mean we get to choose our very own sopping wet triangle to sleep in!?’ 

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How can I possibly choose?!

He explained that the river was too high to do any canoeing, kayaking, or white water rafting because of the rain. He also told us that the place we were standing in was breathtakingly beautiful, when it wasn’t covered in fog and rain.

Al and I took one look at each other, and without speaking, had an entire conversation with a single glance, which was basically ‘There is no way we are staying here.’

We politely let the owner know that we only had one night there, and since the weather was so terrible, there was really no point for us to spend one of our precious few nights in Slovenia shivering in a leaky tent.

I felt a small sense of freedom knowing that neither of us felt any inclination to ‘prove’ that we could stick it out in this place, just because we had previously committed to it. This trip is not about proving we can make it through hard situations, this trip is purely about doing the things that we have always dreamed of doing, and enjoying life as much as possible. And, I have never dreamed of spending 40 euro to sleep outside in a triangle filled with cold, wet mud. (Side note – yes, I do realize that there are people in the world that sleep in much worse conditions, and that my life could be much worse off, so I have no real reason to complain).

The owner seemed almost relieved, and we walked back up the muddy path, and back into our car. At this point, we both decided it made the most sense for us to head straight to Lake Bled, which was where our Airbnb was reserved for the following three nights. This would get us there a day early, but would also mean we would have to find a place once we arrived.

We drove two hours through near zero visibility and non-stop rain, and finally arrived to Bled around 5pm. A little note here, that Bled was always one of the locations I was looking the most forward to, so my hopes were relatively high.

Once we arrived, it was already crawling with tourists, and all we wanted were dry socks and a warm bed. As we pulled up towards the lake, I looked around and was less than impressed with what I saw. It was way more touristy than I imagined. There was even a Bled Casino, and a Bled Mini Putt Putt course (not to mention a McDonald’s). It was nothing like the Slovenia we had gotten used to. Once we got our first glimpse of the lake, I looked at Al and said, “Is that it? That’s not it, is it?” Not exactly the words you hope that will come out of your mouth when you’re seeing a destination you’ve been anticipating for the first time.

It took us about an hour of jumping into different hotels, Airbnbs and Apartamans, before we eventually found a hotel within our budget.

We finally settled into our room, and were pleasantly surprised with having a balcony overlooking beautiful mountains for us to unwind with a glass (bottle) of wine.

 

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Finally drying off, right when the rain stopped.

Afterwards, we decided to take a stroll around Lake Bled, hoping to catch the sunset. I didn’t know it as we descended the giant hill from our hotel to the path surrounding the lake, but I was about to have one of the most memorable few hours of my entire life.

I won’t write too much, because the pictures will probably say much more than I could ever blab on about:

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views walking around the lake

 

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Bled Castle

 

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So happy to be there. Look at that water!

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Alex in front of the lake + castle

 

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We found a path that took us to this amazing view of the whole lake right when the sun was setting (and thanks to the rain, we had it completely to ourselves!)

 

 

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Blue on blue on Bled

 

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It was like a straight up fairy tale

 

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We spent nearly four hours walking around the lake, hiking up paths, and just basically staring slack jawed with amazement over how beautiful this place is. I completely forgot about Bled Casino, and got to see the Bled I had been dreaming of.

After night fell, we decided to stop into a bar (for a Laško, obviously) for a beer before heading home.

 

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At night, it actually looks like Hogwarts.

At the bar as we rested our feet and drank our cold beers, I told Al that I was so thankful for the rain we had, because it lead us to make so many decisions we never would have made otherwise. We knew when a situation wasn’t working out for us, and didn’t hesitate to make a change, make the right decision for us, and move forward.

Almost everything went wrong today, but somehow, it was still one of the best days of my life.

This small but significant twist allowed us to experience a sunset that will never exist in time again, and a memory of a day that we will always remember as our unexpected, frustrating, messy, yet completely perfect road to Bled.

 

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August 10, 2016

Finding More to Maribor

August 10, 2016

When Al and I left Ljubljana Sunday afternoon, I was so distracted by the beautiful landscapes flying by my car window, that I forgot where we were going. Once I remembered we were headed an hour and a half east to the town of Maribor, I realized that I couldn’t think of anything I knew about the town, or why we chose to book three nights here. Then, I realized, Maribor had a lot of wineries.

Oh, right. We came for the wine.

I was able to conjure up vague memories of talking to Al on Gchat from my office desk in Chicago almost a year ago, as he told me that he thought we should go to Maribor because ‘it looks like a really cool place. Also, they have a ton of wineries,’ I was sold after I heard wineries. So we booked the Airbnb and I moved on from Maribor, focusing my efforts on all the other things we planned to do.

That is why, when we drove up to Maribor Sunday evening after an eventful yet weird drive (more on that later) I found myself looking around feeling a bit overwhelmed with how little I had prepared myself for Maribor. I can say that my expectations for this town were low, bordering non-existent, and I am now leaving Maribor completely in love with it. Although I wasn’t walking around the city with dragon shaped stars in my eyes like in Ljubljana, I would absolutely recommend a stop here to anyone considering a visit to Slovenia. Huge bonus, it’s only 25 minutes from Austria and 2 hours from Budapest, but that doesn’t really matter when there is so much to see in Maribor itself.

 

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behold; the most rudimentary map of Slovenia for you to get an idea of where we went.

Al and I came here for the wine, but once we got here, we were so distracted by all of the other things the city had to offer, that we didn’t end up making Maribor the wine-infused stop that we had originally planned it to be.

Here is a general idea of what we did during our time in Maribor, and why I loved it so much.

 

 Exploring River Drava

 

Life in Maribor seems to revolve around the river Drava, or at least it felt that way to me. Apparently, the river bank along the Drava is the oldest and most historic part of town (which luckily is right where our Airbnb was). Apparently this river holds a ton of pride for the city, but also served as a line of protection during times of war. I loved walking among the history every day as we went to and from the city, but mostly, it is just a really beautiful place to walk, run, bike, or simply sit and enjoy. It felt great to wake up every morning and go for a run around the river, and just be surrounded by so much beauty. I almost fell flat on my face more than once, trying to run and take in the views at the same time.

 

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The river is wide and it’s too hard to cross (Billy Joel anyone?)

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swans on the river

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So you think you’re like, really pretty?

 

Climbing Piramida Hill

 

When we drove into the city, the first thing I noticed is that it was all built in front of a church on top of a hill that was wrapped in vines. I didn’t know what it was, but I knew I wanted to climb the hill. After we looked into it a little more, we learned that the hill was actually called Piradmida winery, and was regarded as a really important symbol to Maribor.  It serves as a representation of the bond between the city itself, the wine regions, and wine industry that have been a tradition of Maribor for centuries. It is basically a winery (just the vines though) jutting out of a city, and once we climbed it, we were blown away by how beautiful the views of the city were, and how enjoyable the hike was. It was a definite highlight of our stay in the city.

They also have found castle ruins on top of the hill, which means that at some point, the ‘church’ was actually a castle that sat atop a winery, atop a city. How cool is that?

 

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Almost there.

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Vineyards and Views

Taking a Drive to Pohorje

 

Our second day in Maribor, we decided we wanted to explore the surrounding areas and wine regions. This day turned out to be one of the most beautiful, magical drives we could’ve ever imagined. The best part is that we somehow managed to accidentally drive on Pohorje, which is Slovenia’s largest and most famous ski resort, but in the summer time, is basically a mountain with spectacular views.

 

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Trying really hard to not make a Sound of Music reference (just failed).

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See what I mean about the VIEWS?!

 

Enjoying and Exploring the City

 

The city of Maribor itself is absolutely stunning. There is a castle in the middle of the town square (which I have to say, didn’t exactly look like a castle to me). You can spend the day exploring the historic buildings, eat delicious food, and drink cheap fresh wine. There is so much to see here, and it never got boring. We even had a chance to eat dinner outside with a bunch of locals while watching their club football team play Ljubljana on a huge screen outside.

 

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The ‘Judgement Tower’ doubled as a point of defense during war time, and a place where ‘witches’ were sentenced in the 1500’s

 

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Maribor ‘Castle’ (I think they’re using the term castle very loosely here)

 

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We’re in Europe! Drinking Coffee! Outside! (This will never stop being cool to me)

 

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Stumbled across this band playing in front of a university (the girl was an amazing singer).

 

And yes, the wine

 

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I’ll be honest here, we had a few misses when it came to the wine in Maribor. For example, we really really wanted to go to Europe’s largest underground wine cellar, Vinag, which just happened to be closed while we were there, but we didn’t leave disappointed. We got to visit the oldest vine in the world (according to the Guniness book of world records) climb up an actual vineyard, and most importantly, drink delicious wine no matter where we went.

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ohhh, ahhhh, the oldest vine in the world (that doesn’t even produce wine anymore so what’s the point?)

 

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This vine has been growing grapes for over 400 years.

 

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Two bottles of wine in front of the world’s oldest vine.

 

After we left Ljubljana, I was slightly worried that we had started off our trip with the bar set too high. Al and I agreed that we were glad that we left Ljubljana when we did, because we didn’t want to get too comfortable with it, only to be let down moving forward. It was like I wanted to keep the experience exactly as it was; exactly as it had been so far.

My unnecessary fears were put to rest almost instantly upon arriving to Maribor. A memorable moment for me was when we were climbing the hill, we came across a huge open field that had not only stunning panoramic views of the surrounding area, but was also marked with huge oak trees, and native butterflies that would appear and randomly make their way across the path. I happened to notice a small sign jutting out in a random spot in the field, and it read:

Panta Rei– Everything Flows, Everything is Changing: If we would stop mowing the meadow, it would turn into shrubbery and eventually a full-grown forest. Nature is constantly changing. Even these marlstone slopes are slowly moving and changing.

I took a picture of the sign, and told Al that I really loved the message. It’s so simple; life is always changing, things are always moving, even when we aren’t paying attention to it, and especially when we resist it. I can’t control every step of this trip, or the experience of this journey, and I’m not going to try to. I have Maribor to thank for that.

Also, the wine. Thanks for the wine.

 

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In case you are wondering, no it is not embarrassing at all to take a picture of your wine with your phone up against the bottom of a table in public.

4 Comments · Labels: Slovenia, Travel

August 4, 2016

Meeting your Heroes

August 4, 2016

Today is the day we are leaving; our flight departs in 11 hours. Every few hours for the past couple of days, Al or I will look at the other and ask for what seems like the millionth time:

How do you feel?

We have spent so long planning, saving, dreaming about this day, that it all feels really surreal. There has been so much time to build up to this experience and now that it is here, I don’t really know how to take it all in.

A few nights ago, Al asked me the ‘how do you feel’ question (again), I found myself saying my fear out loud:

What if it isn’t what we thought it would be?

I know it sounds ridiculous, how can you not love traveling the world with your best friend and husband? But when you plan and dream of something for so long, and it is finally about to come true, there is a little bit of doubt that can creep in:

What if the dream is better than the reality?

Everyone always says you shouldn’t meet your heroes, you’ll just end up disappointed. What if it is the same when you go after your big life goals?

Over the next few days with this thought floating around in my head, I started getting random flashes of various moments of my life (usually when I would be doing really mundane tasks, like taking a shower or washing the dishes):

Al and I sitting in a computer lab between classes in college looking up work abroad programs in Australia; that time we just started dating and I angrily stomped up the stairs of my apartment when he announced he was going to Costa Rica over the summer without me; sitting in an internet cafe in Thailand as we desperately tried to figure out how we could get him to come visit me (he didn’t). I remembered the time I sat in a hostel in the middle of Botswana (pre FaceTime and smartphone days), and I heard the one available pay phone ring from the middle of a courtyard: a groundskeeper came in and told me there was a phone call for me, Al had somehow managed to track me down in the middle of nowhere to ask me what Africa was like.

More memories flood in; days when I would commute to work on the brown line, face smashed against a window because of how crowded it was, I would close my eyes and try to imagine this day. I remembered the time Al and I sat in an airport bar in Denver, and I looked at him and said ‘can you imagine how amazing it would feel if instead of flying back to Chicago, we were getting ready to fly out and travel?’

It felt like these memories were flooding in and reminding me that this is what we have wanted for so long, this is almost all we have wanted for so long, and we are ACTUALLY doing it. All these different moments compiled on top of each other to get to us to the point where we are now, making this dream happen.

So, what if it isn’t what we thought it would be? Then it isn’t what we thought it would be. But, I am glad we are going to find out ourselves, instead of spending another 10 years imagining it in our heads. I am so happy that we’ve made this decision, that we have decided to throw a lasso around our wildest dream and pull it down to earth, making it real.

This morning I didn’t hesitate when he asked me again, how do you feel? 

Ready. I feel ready.

 

 

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July 17, 2016

Sweet Home Chicago

July 17, 2016

When we went to the Galapagos in April, I knew there was no way I would be able to write a post that would be able to convey the experience. Instead, we made a video.

I have written about Chicago a lot on this blog; how brutal the winters are, how much I love the city, how it drives me crazy at times. I have repeatedly talked about how difficult it was to make the decision to leave Chicago, even though we are leaving to fulfill a lifetime goal.

As much as I love Chicago, I know the truth behind why it is so difficult to leave. Chicago gave us so much, but it wasn’t what made the past six years what they were. Chicago may have been the setting, but it was the people that made the city feel like home.

Leaving our best friends who Al and I love is what makes this move so difficult. They have become family to us, and there is not a day that goes by where we don’t feel overwhelmingly thankful for having such amazing people to call our friends.

With Chicago, I knew it would be another Galapagos situation, and that once again, I would not be able to put into words what I feel.

Instead, here’s a video.

 

 

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July 15, 2016

For the Love of My 20’s

July 15, 2016

This Saturday, I turn 30 years old. The beginning of a new decade.

So far, I have managed to pass most of the year without overanalyzing how I feel about turning 30, but this week it became almost impossible for me to continue ignoring the fact that it is happening. I am entering my 30’s how most young women dream of; unemployed and homeless.

Of course, I realize it is not as dramatic as all that, and it is a very literal (also, negative) way of looking at my situation. I try to remind myself that I should be nothing but thankful when I make it to another birthday when there are so many people that do not get the chance to live to 30. Each day I am alive and healthy is a day to be grateful.

But, still. It’s 30. All the positive thinking in the world still didn’t stop me from spending the morning googling articles about successful people who didn’t hit their stride until after they turned 30.

I keep thinking about all the shows and movies I watched growing up when characters hit 30: Rachel on Friends freaking out over where she is at 30 compared to everyone else, then frantically planning out how she was going to make her dream of having kids happen within the next 5 years; when Jennifer Garner’s character on 13 going on 30 dreams of being ‘thirty, flirty, and thriving‘ and gets transported into life at 30 only to find herself having grown up to be a huge jerk at the helm of a major advertising company. Also, realizing that Danny Tanner was only 29 years old in season one of Full House, and they celebrated his 30th birthday in episode 11, meaning that he was a father of three with a giant house in San Francisco and a booming journalism career all before the age of 30.

Back then, 30 seemed so grown up, and a lifetime away. Now, 30 feels so much younger than I thought it would, and it seems that nobody has life all figured out at this point. As excited as I am to find out what this next decade has in store, there is part of me that feels sad and nostalgic to leave my 20’s behind.

These past 10 years were some of the best of my life, filled with so much adventure, growth, and friendship that I felt the need to honor it in some way.  So I decided to do what I have been doing so often on this blog, which is make a list.

I have made a list of the 5 most influential moments of my 20’s. Some of these moments were amazing, some were extremely difficult, but all of them had some type of major impact on my life.

 

1.My First Solo Trip Abroad: Africa

 

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When I was 21, I took my first trip abroad by myself. I decided to spend 6 weeks volunteering in South Africa, after which my best friend would join me for three weeks camping through South Africa, Namibia, Botswana, and Zambia. It was the summer between my Junior and Senior year of college and I was itching to throw myself out of my comfort zone.

It took several months of saving and planning, but it just so happened that a few weeks before I left for my trip, I went through some extremely difficult things in my personal life. I seriously considered backing out of the trip due to my emotional state.

I am not quite sure how or why I decided to force myself to go (my best guess is the thousands of dollars already spent on the flights and volunteer program). I arrived in South Africa at one of my lowest points and spent the first couple of days crying in a run down hostel while trying to talk myself out of flying home. Every single moment, I asked myself “What the hell were you thinking?!” Each day was a huge effort for me just to step outside of my comfort zone (not to mention my room), when all I wanted to do was get back on the first flight home.

It took a couple of weeks but slowly, I found myself getting stronger and finding courage where I honestly had no idea it existed. I could write about this experience ad nauseam because of what it did for me (I promise, I wont), but at the end of my 2 1/2 months away from home, I arrived back in Indiana a completely different person than the girl who had left.

This trip taught me so much about myself, about my personal limits and my ability to stand on my own two feet. I left Africa feeling like there was nothing in the world I couldn’t do if I worked hard enough. It also cemented the fact that I wanted to travel as much as I could in my lifetime.  Although I wasn’t sure how I would make it happen, I trusted that after this trip, I would find a way.

2. Living and working overseas post-college: Thailand

 

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My original plan after college was to get a job, save as much as I could, and travel the world. What I did not plan for, was graduating at the height of the recession and that employers wouldn’t exactly be fighting over a 22 year old with a Communications degree. I applied to what felt like hundreds of jobs, and got zero interviews.

I started reading about people having success moving overseas and finding jobs, and teaching abroad seemed like the perfect way to gain work experience, travel, and earn money at the same time. So, as a fresh college graduate, I signed up to get TEFL certified and a month later, I was on a plane to Chiang Mai, Thailand.

After 3 weeks of training, I was placed at a private school in Bangkok. I spent 8 months living and working; attempting to keep my head above water and teaching English to Thai high school students. This was followed by 6 weeks traveling through Southeast Asia.

This time in my life is what I sometimes consider the most wild and carefree period of my life, and also the most aimless. Looking back now, I cringe at some of the ridiculous things that I did, and in all the ways I was the most irresponsible traveller (like stupidly riding elephants). Much of what I learned from this trip happened after I got home. One of my goals this year is to travel much more responsibly and educate myself so much more on the activities that I participate in.  Since I have had some major personal shifts in my beliefs towards tourism since then, this will serve as a small apology to the earth for how reckless I was.

 

3. Settling Down and Finding Balance: Chicago

 

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After Thailand, I returned home determined to find work and move to Chicago. I was ready to start building my life and to stay in one place for awhile. After a few short stints at really horrible jobs, I nailed down an entry-level job at what was my dream company at the time.

From 24-29, Chicago is where I put down roots. I learned how to become a responsible, fully functioning adult. I worked hard, enjoyed all the city has to offer, moved in with my husband for the first time, and cemented some of the most important relationships in my life. I really can’t put into words what my time in Chicago has done for me as a person (so I won’t try right now), but it is very safe to say this is not the last you will be hearing on this topic.

4. Taking a Major Risk and Failing: Turkey

 

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It has always been a dream of mine to travel the world, and for Al and I to do it together, as I have mentioned a painful amount of times, so I think everyone gets the point. What I haven’t yet mentioned here (or really anywhere) is that this is not the first time Al and I have attempted to live out our dream of travel.

Back in 2012, we left our jobs and moved to Turkey. The plan was to teach English, work and save, and then do a road trip around Europe together. Yes, that’s right. We went through the whole thing before: moving out, saying goodbye to friends, getting rid of all of our stuff, finding work in Turkey, I even started a blog about it.

After a few weeks in Istanbul, several things started to unravel, and rapidly. Due to a multitude of circumstances, we had to come home. We returned to our jobs, our lives in Chicago, and I tried to forget the entire thing.

Essentially, we took a leap and fell flat on our faces. I will never forget the feeling of arriving back in Chicago after everything went down, feeling like Al and I had not only failed, but that we had lost our one chance at traveling the world.  I tried breaking the wheel, and I paid the price for it. As a result, I felt that it was time for me to permanently lock away my travel dreams.

So, that’s what I did. For a really long time, I let what happened in Turkey define how I saw the world, how I made decisions, and how I saw myself. I pushed down my dream as far as it could go, then put a stack of books on top of it, and then I sat on top of the stack of books so that it couldn’t try and wrestle its way out again.

It sounds cliché, but it really did just hit me one day like a bolt of lightening; that I was letting this one failure control me and dictate my life and I wasn’t willing to give it any more energy. I knew that no matter how far I pushed down my dream, that it would never go away. Instead, it would become like a weed growing inside of me; making me miserable until I paid attention to it.

So, we started again. Only this time around, we’re doing it better than the first time. And now that we’re making it happen, it feels all the more sweeter accomplishing a dream after having to work so much harder for it. I can’t believe that I ever doubted my decision to try again.

Turkey taught me that my failures don’t define me, no matter how big it may seem at the time. How I handle the aftermath of failure is more important. If I really want something, I have to keep trying and believe that I can get it done. It also taught me that I’m apparently really stubborn when it comes to getting what I want.

Maybe one day I’ll get around to writing about that experience more in depth.

5. Getting Married: Chicago

 

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Even though Al and I had been together for almost the entirety of my 20’s, I still had to put our decision to get married on the list.

Our wedding itself was one of my favorite days, but I realize that choosing to get married is much deeper than one really fun day of celebrating. I can’t really think of a decision that is more impactful than deciding you are going to share your life with another person.  The person you choose is the person that is going to lift you up, help you grow, and be by your side during the hard stuff. It took my almost all of my 20’s to truly understand the value and importance of a decision like this, and why it was something that I wanted to do. It also helps when you have the best person in the world as your partner (I may be biased).


 

I feel slightly better after having written this list. It felt like a send-off to let my 20’s know how thankful I am for everything they taught me, and for the best years of my life (so far), even when I felt like I was getting pummeled in the face at times.

Alright 30, let’s do this.

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June 30, 2016

When you Become a Cliché of your Generation.

June 30, 2016

Stop me if you’ve heard this one.

A millennial walks into an office…

And quits a comfortable, steady job to travel.

You’ve heard it, right? That is because it has become the tagline of my generation. Now that I have for better or for worse joined the ranks, I have passed through what I believe are the 3 steps that most people end up going through (or just me, since this is completely based on my experience) at some point when they make a major decision that is even just a little bit different.

Step 1: Accepting the stereotype, and realizing you can’t change it. 

 

We are all flighty, we job hop too much, we are entitled and narcissistic. We chase dreams instead of reality, because we were all told that we were special for too long, and given too many participation ribbons for giving mediocre (at best) performances in little league soccer.

Did I miss anything?

So, when I put my notice in at my job of 6 years (a great one that offered me security, benefits, a good salary, and flexible time off) to travel the world, I had to laugh at myself. In one decision, I had branded myself as one of those people, another story of a 20-something (almost 30!) quitting their desk job to travel.

The reality is, I am not quitting my job on a whim, or after a week of sitting behind my desk enviously staring at instagram feeds of travellers raising their hands up standing in front of mountains (see my cover photo), and convincing myself that is the answer to all my problems. I do not think there is anything wrong with having a desk job and working hard to pay the bills. This has nothing to do with my choice to leave.

I am leaving job security for instability and the unknown. I might come back at some point down the road and find myself having to start over from scratch. Many see a decision like this as being irresponsible, ungrateful; just another unsatisfied young person, running away from responsibility of real life.

I have worked throughout my late teens and my twenties, and saved every bit I could of my salary to be able to take time to explore the world on my own terms. I don’t have a trust fund. I have a goal. A lofty one, and I worked for it. I met my husband when I was 19, and was lucky enough to find someone that shared this goal with me. We planned for it. I dreamed about it. It scares me. In fact, it terrifies me. I know what I am leaving behind. I understand what I am giving up. I am not naive and do also understand how lucky I am to be in a position in the world where I am able to make this type of dream a reality, and that I was already given a leg up simply because of my background.

The stereotype of my generation will be there (just like it has been for all generations), regardless of what I choose to do with my life, so I can’t let that stop me from moving forward.

Step 2: Everyone has an opinion – and you are going to hear them all. 

 

The week before my husband and I left our jobs, my husband was stopped in the hallway of his office by an executive who said, “Is it true what I heard? You are quitting and traveling? That is such a typical millennial thing to do. Another traveling millennial sucking up the world’s resources.'”

Because my husband is kind and lighthearted, he laughed it off. I, however, sulked angrily after he told me this story (I clearly hadn’t mastered step one yet).

Since we have prepared to go on this trip, many variants of comments like that have found their way to our ears, and it seems as though people have a lot of opinions when you make this kind of a choice. As a person who can let the opinions of others affect how I feel to a fault, this has been difficult for me.

What it has to come down to is this: I am the one that has to wake up every morning and live in my skin. I am the one that has to live out the consequences of my decisions, good or bad, while people like Executive Guy get to live in theirs, and comfortably judge me from afar. I can’t make life decisions based on Executive Guy. I have to do what feels right to me.

I can’t help but think that if we were using our hard earned money and deciding to sink it into a new home, or pay for a year of graduate school, or fund our first child, there would be much less of this type of judgement coming our way. But then again, maybe not. People will always find a way to judge any decision.

Step 3: Ignore all opinions and advice, and do it anyway. 

 

Believe me when I say, I have tried as hard as I could to talk myself out of this over the years. I have tried convincing myself to stay put, that leaving would be a mistake. To just satisfy my travel itch like a normal person by fitting in vacations where I could. It has been a constant battle between two sides of myself; The rational side of my brain is constantly screaming What are you doing?! We are safe here! What if you hate it? What if you’re miserable? You should be happy with what you have now, that should be enough for you! Don’t you know how lucky you are?  

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This comic sums up my entire mental state 90% of the time.

Then, there is the other part of me. This is the side that wants me to do the things that I have always dreamed of doing, and to live the fullest life I possibly can.

I think it is obvious which side won out.

It is a risk, and a risk that I have decided is worth taking for me. This decision is not for everyone, millennial or not. I would never recommend people quit their jobs, and follow the same path that my husband and I are taking. It is not everyone’s dream. But right now, it is mine.

However, I would always recommend that if there is something within you that you truly want to do, regardless of how scary or foolish it may seem, or what others think about it, do whatever you can to make that thing happen. If you are not happy where you are, make decisions that will get you closer to where you want to be. Move forward. Try, and if you fail, try again. Keep trying. Maybe some of us do take big risks, and sometimes we fail in epic fashions. I know I have. But you have to ask yourself, if I don’t take this chance, what is the alternative? 

If we did not do this now, we would never stop wanting to do this. We would never stop dreaming of this. It might go away for awhile, or be pushed down and silenced by other exciting life events, but it would always resurface. Ultimately I would find myself at the end of my life, wondering why I never did it when I had the chance.

I do not want to go the next twenty years following a path that does not belong to me, and I do not want to carry around a padded resumé filled with jobs that represent years of unhappiness. Regardless of where we end up after this trip, my hope is that we will look back on this time with no regrets, and be glad we took the leap.

So, here’s to being a millennial.

 

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June 29, 2016

Phase One: The Balkan Road Trip

June 29, 2016

     

    Since I have already dedicated two posts to a somewhat emo explanation of why we are leaving everything we know behind to travel, I figured I should probably write about exactly where we are going, and what we are doing.

    In my mind, the entirety of this trip has 3 different phases to it, and can range anywhere from 3-6 months in duration. It is possible that we will be gone longer than 6 months as we do not currently have a return date or flight, and at this point, our trip is open ended. However, right now Al and I both agree that it is pretty likely that we will return back to the U.S. within the first couple months of 2017.

    As I mentioned before, we are officially leaving O’Hare International Airport on August 4th, and arriving for phase 1 of our trip in our first city…

    Ljubljana!

     

    I like to act really dramatic when I announce that to anyone who asks, and then watch their blank faces stare back at me.  It doesn’t get quite the same reaction as say, “Paris!” or “London!” might, and I usually find myself going into an long (and totally unnecessary) explanation of the Balkan region, and the fall of the former Yugoslavia.  

    I am not being judgmental and travel snobby here – I have just become aware of a large majority of the cities we are traveling to this year in the Balkan region within the past 18 months, and would have given the same confused blank stare back at anyone else who had told me they were going to Ljubljana, Slovenia. I really doubt I would have ever been able to locate it on a map. Not to mention that I have known we are starting in Ljubljana for the better part of a year, and I still struggle with how to pronounce it (in case you are wondering, you can read my sister’s helpful explanation here).

    So, that is where we are starting this big adventure of ours. We have rented an automatic car, successfully gotten our international drivers licenses, and plan to drive the route you can click through in the map above from August 2016-October 2016.

    Since deciding to do this, the most common question that I have been asked is why did you choose this particular region to travel? 

    I really wish that I had some type of poetic answer for this question. Maybe that I had dreamed of this part of the world since I was young, or that Al or I had historic family ties to Macedonia, or that it was a long personal goal of mine to see all the UNSECO world heritage sites, and the Balkans have over 47 of them, so I decided to start there.

    None of those things are why we chose to start with a Balkan road trip. What really happened was a little different. About a year ago, Al and I realized we needed to decide exactly what we wanted this RTW trip to look like, where we wanted to go, and what we wanted to do. We were tossing around so many different destinations, but were having a difficult time committing to any of them (which I realize is the best kind of problem to have).

    It was becoming more difficult to plan, and we were not as excited as we wanted to be about the locations we had on our short list. We decided to completely scrap our original plan, and start over. A huge part of this trip is about Al and I spending time together, having experiences and doing things that we have always dreamed of doing, and we knew that we would not be able to accomplish any of that unless we focused on asking ourselves the following question: what do we really want to do, if we could do anything? With that question in mind, we came up with these three points:

    1. Complete freedom to explore on our own schedule. Al and I have always loved going on road trips together, and we loved the idea of doing a road trip where we have control of where we go and what we do. We didn’t want to be tied to bus schedules, or specific areas because it was easier to travel via train or bus. To us, driving around a new place in our own car represented the ultimate travel freedom.
    2. Culture, Coastlines, Cuisine, and Camping. OK, so camping wasn’t really one of them, but being outdoors was, and camping starts with a ‘C’ so it worked out. We wanted to go to places where we could be surrounded by natural beauty, a new culture, and inexpensive food. I always feel instantly better when I am near water, so being near a coastline was added to the wish list.
    3. A place neither of us have been to, or know much about. Many of the destinations we were coming up with were places that one of us had either been to at some point, or had been somewhere similar. We wanted to travel somewhere that would be completely new for both of us, so that we could each be learning and experiencing everything for the first time together.
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    Hoping for more coastlines like this one from our trip to Antalya in 2013.

    Once we realized this was what we actually wanted out of the first part of our trip, I immediately thought of Croatia. Al and I had wanted to go to Croatia back in 2013, but it didn’t work out, so I decided to take another look. We started researching Croatia, and around the same time, my sister took a trip to Bled, Slovenia for a friend’s wedding. This led me to start researching Slovenia. Once I started looking into this tiny country that is filled with mountains, coastlines, wine regions, and beautiful European cities, I immediately fell in love, and our road trip idea was born.

    As we expanded our research and planning into the other Balkan cities on our itinerary, I felt like I had opened the Pandora’s box of the world. There are the stunning views of the the Bay of Kotor in Montenegro, the deepest underwater cave in the world in Macedonia, one of Europe’s last remaining rainforests, the historic town of Mostar built by the Ottomans in the 16th century, the Julian Alps that cut through Slovenia, and the Dalmatian coast in Croatia, arguably the world’s most beautiful coastline (I will report back on this one). This extremely short list barely scratches the surface of the endless amount of must do items we have on the agenda for our two month adventure in the Balkans.

    It is a huge bonus that the Balkans are much more inexpensive than more popular cities in Western Europe (except some of the major cities in Croatia), with just as much beauty, food and culture (being so close to Italy and Greece) and I cannot wait to start exploring a part of the world that I never imagined myself going to.

    After these discoveries (and it didn’t hurt finding out Game of Thrones is filmed in Dubrovnik), we decided to make the leap, book our flights to Ljubljana, and commit to the route shown in the map above. If you have any suggestions for stops or places that we didn’t include on our Balkan itinerary, please let me know.

    5 weeks to go!

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    June 23, 2016

    Years in the Making: A Post from Alex

    June 23, 2016

    Last week, I asked Al to write a post that would explain in his own words, what our upcoming trip means to him. In honor of his last day of work today, and his 29th birthday this Sunday, I thought it would be the perfect opportunity to share his side. Enjoy!

     

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    My husband, the perfect 10 (as proven by his perfect 10 leopard tank).

     

    Back in 2006, Megan and I had started dating. Since we had become best friends twelve months prior, our first year together was less traditional than most new couples. Rather than a typical fancy dinner, night at the movies, and other things “NORMAL” people do, Megan and I would walk across town and hang out at Barnes and Noble (like most popular kids at a Big10 school).

    Our very first visit to B&N went like this; upon arrival, we scouted the store for two isolated, comfy couches, staked our claim by leaving a random article of clothing, and we ventured out into the land of overpriced books. Out of the dozens of sections, each of us went straight for the travel section of the store and giddily perused the lists of majestic lands we hoped to travel one day.

    We each had our separate “bucket list items” but we enthusiastically listened to each others reasons for a must-visit country or region. “Wow, Meg, come look at this place!” I would shout and I’d show a picture her of a pristine beach in the Philippians. “So amazing! We NEED to go there! And look what I found!” showing me a troop of Gorillas in the Ugandan rainforest.

    Upon the hundreds of magazines and region guidebooks, our individual wish lists literally stacked a few feet high which we waddled back to our secluded (reserved) couches. We spent the next several hours being awestruck by all the beautiful places this world has to offer; the serenely beautiful, the culturally enriching, the adrenaline inducing. Between the two of us, we wanted to do everything; nothing was undesirable or off limits. Not only did we want to go everywhere, but we wanted to go everywhere together. At this particular moment, I had fallen in love with Megan and I knew these plans weren’t mere fantasy; I knew we would travel the world together.

    So here we are almost 10 years later, on the brink of fulfilling this relationship long dream and all I can feel is assurance. I know we are supposed to go on this adventure and I know it’ll be everything we want it to be. I’ve told Megan before that I think we are the best versions of ourselves while we travel. Our individual strengths shine through while the other supports our weaknesses, which allows us to handle any situation that we encounter.

    I’m not anticipating long term travel to be a cake walk; I know challenges will arise every single day. However, I feel most alive when in a foreign land and a foreign situation; you depend on your instincts and become less preoccupied with the “what ifs” that can bog you down in life.

    Lastly, nothing feels more rewarding than realizing a dream. Meg and I have discussed endlessly on how this process was going to happen. We’ve made lists upon lists of budgets, locales, pre-trip to-dos, etc. etc. etc. and we are so close to that final item on the list which is the most exciting of them all: DO IT.

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    back in 2006 – Only 10 years to go until we’d finally make it happen.

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